Michael,
Having never installed one these systems, I defer to your experience. However I have a couple questions/comments:
As a former plumber (ahem!), most all of the air bladder tanks I installed were on household domestic water heaters. They came from the factory with an air charge of 40 psi. This is just a factory set average and for the tank to work properly the water pressure in the system has to be checked (before installing the bladder tank) and the tank pumped up to equal it--typically 80 to 90 psi around here. This keeps the bladder membrane in a "neutral" position for longer life & allowing it to react equally to pressure drop or gain in the system.
Bladders for hot water heat systems (different in that they are built for higher temperature & anti-freeze) came pre-set at 12-15 psi, which is about typical operating pressure for that set up, so we left them at the factory setting (but always verified it--some had leaked down).
Since Bob will be running a basically non-pressurized system--only the pressure derived from the expansion of the fluid as it is heated to a lower temperature than either domestic or heating water--shouldn't he reduce the pressure in the bladder to, say, 3 to 5 psi?
And Bob, be sure to get a bladder tank for hot water heat system, not domestic/potable use! The tank can go anywhere in the system, but secure it well--when full, it will weigh at least 10-15 pounds or so and you don't want the pipe connections to be the only support.
The air bleeder should be at the highest point of the system.
Wouldn't a 30 gallon water heater be more than ample? (& cheaper as well?)
( & don't let that Home Depot salesman tell you to put a plug in the third bung on the water heater--that's where the t&p valve goes!)
Disconnect switch for water heater must by National Electric Code be within sight of water heater, but breaker in panel is OK if this meets that requirement.
Where is your filler? Is your "c) drain valve" (boiler drain?) going to double as a filler?
(Sorry if I sound like I'm speaking down to you--as a building inspector, I see some really moronic stuff done by smart people!)
John