I saw the reinforcement plates for the crossmember mounts online, with shipping it's like $50 and change for 4 pieces of mild steel that anybody can buy at HomeDepot for $3 a foot.... took maybe 20 minutes to cut and fit....
I used washers under the bolt head inside the crossmember - I figure that the cast differential cracks before the bolts get pulled thru the crossmember but I added washers to spread the load anyways... overkill for sure, the crossmember is quiet thick in this area.
ok, my fiberglass work on the fenders is done, next item on the list is to install the driver side trailing arm and then figure out where the upper strut rods go... I'll have to lower the diff and the crossmember one more time to finish the welding for the upper bracket as well as the half shaft loop brackets....